I’d
have to say that my personal principles came from my parent’s principles. You
know, all those basic ones you’re taught as a kid. Don’t lie. Don’t steal.
Don’t cheat. Don’t fight. If you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at
all, ect. I think everyone already has these principles embedded within
themselves and tries their hardest not to disavow them. But that’s just
scratching the surface. Deeper principles, regarding God and religion, sex,
life decisions, acceptance, and forgiveness, are where it gets a little fuzzy.
I can safely, and thankfully say that my parents had no involvement regarding
most of those principles. Those are ones that develop as you grow up, with time
and experience and mistakes and misfortunes. Those are the principles that one
has to experience themselves in order to gain. They can’t just be told to you
as a little kid and accepted without further questioning.
I can
agree partly with Aristotle’s viewpoint, that a good life equals a happy life.
And I think our principles have a lot to do with that, whether you choose to do
the morally right or wrong thing will affect your happiness in the long run.
However, I disagree with his whole idea of “pure contemplation” equaling pure
happiness. In my own personal experiences, when I over think things and start
obsessing, well that’s when things go directly downhill. And it’s hard to climb
back up that hill once you’ve tumbled all the way down it. The philosophical
idea that seemed to make the most sense to me was the Taosoit approach. In
contrast, it also seems like the hardest one to accomplish. The whole idea of
completely letting go, not caring and not over thinking seems in and of itself
a miracle if it could ever be accomplished. Personally, I don’t think I’d be
able to do it. No judgment, now that’s a good principle. I think too many
people are too quick to judge something or someone, and therefore miss out. No
judgment equals no suffering, I highly agree with that. It is an appealing
approach though, and it does make perfect sense. Although most people don’t
aspire to be average, once you’re at the top of the hill, the only way left to
go is tumbling back down.
-- I commented on Kyle Bay's blog: http://honor-is-better-than-honors.blogspot.com/.
-- I commented on Kyle Bay's blog: http://honor-is-better-than-honors.blogspot.com/.